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Multiamory
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Приєднався 6 тра 2015
Conventional relationship advice is toxic and outdated. Multiamory offers new ideas and advice for multiple forms of love: everything from conscious monogamy to ethical polyamory to radical relationship anarchy. We believe in looking to the future of relationships, not maintaining the status quo of the past. We value ethics over tradition, and we believe that a healthy world is one where everybody has agency in their relationships.
484 - Compersion is a Spectrum with Dr. Marie Thouin
Marie Thouin is back today to discuss compersion and her new book with us. Dr. Marie Thouin is a Mindful Dating & Relationship Coach who supports people of all backgrounds and relational orientations to create intentional and vibrant love lives. She is a leading expert on the topic of compersion and the author of the groundbreaking book, "What is Compersion? Understanding Positive Empathy in Consensually Non-Monogamous Relationships.” Marie has published seminal research studies, the first-ever encyclopedia entry on compersion, and is the creator of www.WhatIsCompersion.com, a popular website that features her research, blogs, and other resources on compersion. She has been featured in several magazines and podcasts, including ELLE, the Savage Lovecast, and Multiamory.
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483 - Why Do We Lead With Fear?
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Today, we're talking about fear, specifically how it can affect our relationships and what happens when we lead with fear. We're going to discuss fear and what it means to lead with it in a relationship, as well as some ways we can consciously move away from being led by fear to have happier, more fulfilling connections. If this show is helpful to you, consider joining our amazing community of ...
482 - Un-Diagnose Yourself with Todd Baratz
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Join us today for a very special discussion with Todd Baratz! Todd is a renowned psychotherapist and sex therapist whose innovative approach to mental health and relationships has established him as a leading figure in his field. In addition to his clinical practice, Baratz is a prolific writer and speaker. His insights are regularly featured in various media outlets, where he discusses topics ...
481 - Can You "Fix" Your Partner's Insecurities?
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Today we're talking about insecurities, which all of us have in one way or another, and whose responsibility it is to alleviate them. A lot of us are unsure whether it's our own personal work to do or something to work on together with a partner. Therefore, today we'll be discussing the difference between personal insecurities and relationship insecurities, looking at what the science says abou...
480 - Communication Hacks: Remastered
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This week we have a throwback episode going back six years ago to when we discussed three powerful communication tools to strengthen your relationships: switchtracking, bids, and microscripts. We're going to explore each of these concepts, provide examples of each, and talk about some practical and actionable tips to help you use them to foster better communication in your relationships. If thi...
479 - Grief, Breakups, and Hope for What Comes Next
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This week we're talking about breaking up again, specifically about the process of grieving a breakup through the lens of the five stages of grief. Long relationships in particular can have difficult breakups and it can be hard to know where to turn. We're going to explore the stages of grief, healing, and recovery, and hope our musings can be helpful for people going through hard breakups. If ...
478 - “I’m a relationship anarchist, but no one knows what that is."
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This week's Q&A episode is circling back to relationship anarchy and how to navigate it when most people either don't subscribe to it or don't even know what it is. If you want your question answered on a future Q&A join our Patreon community at www.patreon.com/multiamory. If this show is helpful to you, consider joining our amazing community of like-minded listeners at patreon.com/Multiamory (...
477 - I Love You But I Don't Like You
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This week, we're exploring the difference between loving someone and liking someone. We're specifically discussing how it is we can love someone but also not like being around them very much, and if one feeling is more important than the other. We'll also be talking about how knowing the distinction between liking and loving can help us show up in our relationships, and as always we'll have som...
"My monogamous partner fell in love with someone else." Ep. 476
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This week's Q&A episode is tackling emotional and sexual exclusivity and navigating polyamory as someone mostly adjacent to it. Interested in having your question answered on one of our future Q&A episodes? Join our Patreon community at patreon.com/multiamory.
476 - "My monogamous partner fell in love with someone else."
Переглядів 42Місяць тому
This week's Q&A episode is tackling emotional and sexual exclusivity and navigating polyamory as someone mostly adjacent to it. Interested in having your question answered on one of our future Q&A episodes? Join our Patreon community at patreon.com/multiamory. If this show is helpful to you, consider joining our amazing community of like-minded listeners at patreon.com/Multiamory (www.patreon.c...
475 - Is It Better to Settle in Relationships?
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Today we're talking about what it means to "settle" in a relationship. We'll be discussing if it's okay to settle and what realistic expectations of a relationship should be, compromise, and whether or not we should hold out for a perfect relationship. We're going to look at research and surveys about finding partners who meet expectations, weigh some pros and cons of compromising versus never ...
474 - "How can I know if sneakiarchy is happening in my relationship?"
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This week we're tackling a question about sneaky hierarchy, aka sneakiarchy. We're talking about how to recognize it in future relationships, how to recognize when you might be creating it by accident, and more. If you want your question answered on a future Q&A episode, consider becoming a member of our Patreon community! Visit www.multiamory.com/join to sign up. If this show is helpful to you...
473 - Love Languages Might Be Bullsh*t
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Today we're talking about love languages, and taking a critical look at them to discuss whether or not they're actually as important as we make them out to be. We're going to go over some of the key assumptions behind the love languages and of course, look at what the research has to say. And finally, we discuss both the potential benefits and the possible pitfalls of relying too heavily on the...
472 - "Is it possible to get ahead of couples' privilege?"
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This week's Q&A episode is discussing couples' privilege and how to be cognizant of when it may affect interactions with other potential partners. If you want to submit a question to be answered on one of the extra Q&A episodes we're doing for the next few months, become one of our Patreon supporters at www.patreon.com/multiamory. If this show is helpful to you, consider joining our amazing com...
471 - Possessiveness Might Help Your Non-Monogamous Relationship
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Today, we're talking about feeling possessive over a partner, the psychology and science behind it, and how even when non-monogamous, possessive feelings can still arise and create challenges for us. We'll even be discussing some times when a little bit of possessiveness can be a good thing! If this show is helpful to you, consider joining our amazing community of like-minded listeners at patre...
470 - "I want foreplay to start at breakfast."
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470 - "I want foreplay to start at breakfast."
468 - "I want to fix our desire mismatch, but my partner doesn't."- Listener Q&A
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468 - "I want to fix our desire mismatch, but my partner doesn't."- Listener Q&A
467 - "You're gonna need therapy until you die" - A Conversation with TherapyJeff
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467 - "You're gonna need therapy until you die" - A Conversation with TherapyJeff
466 - "I have lost all enthusiasm for my relationship." - Listener Q&A
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466 - "I have lost all enthusiasm for my relationship." - Listener Q&A
465 - Is Single Life Superior? Why Independence Matters for Everyone
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465 - Is Single Life Superior? Why Independence Matters for Everyone
464 - This Is Why You Struggle with Honesty
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464 - This Is Why You Struggle with Honesty
463 - You're Not as Open-Minded As You Think
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463 - You're Not as Open-Minded As You Think
462 - Deepening Connections Through Slow Love
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462 - Deepening Connections Through Slow Love
461 - My Partner Won’t Admit Their Jealousy - Listener Q&A
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461 - My Partner Won’t Admit Their Jealousy - Listener Q&A
460 - Multiamory Presents: Navigating Jealousy in Non-Monogamy (Multiamory’s Interview on Better ...
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460 - Multiamory Presents: Navigating Jealousy in Non-Monogamy (Multiamory’s Interview on Better ...
459 - Non-Monogamy in the Workplace Part 2
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459 - Non-Monogamy in the Workplace Part 2
458 - Non-Monogamy In the Workplace Part 1
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458 - Non-Monogamy In the Workplace Part 1
457 - Creating Lasting Sexual Connections with Emily Nagoski
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457 - Creating Lasting Sexual Connections with Emily Nagoski
456 - F The Fairytale with Damona Hoffman
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456 - F The Fairytale with Damona Hoffman
I just got introduced to RA and its great to hear the basics like this. Cause what I've been hearing is very muddled and not clear. Seems like lots of people wanted to add on and complicate something that was very simple and clear. Thank you
"Dont use it as a stick, but as a flashlight" That is a really great statement.
So happy to see you guys back on camera for this one :)
Absolutely agree. I feel like I lose so much of a conversation or material when I cannot see body language or facial expression.
Great episode.
As an AA battery, I appreciate the representation
Great episode.
Great episode thanks for sharing.💙
Another great episode.
Great episode.
Great episode.
A is also Agender
Great episode.
Great episode.
Thank you for the timing of this.
Another great episode.
Interesting episode.
Great episode.
Great episode.
Great episode.
Great episode.
Getting into his mind by expertly knocking down his psychological walls and making him tingle with feelings of pleasure, means you're doing it right. There are many so called "canned phrases" to make it happen, for example go’ogling something like Celestine Dessike's Words of Desire was the perfect formula for me
Nice discussion.
I THINK GOING OUTSIDE OF YOUR MARRIAGE WHEN YOU DO NOT HAVE SEXUAL COMPATIBILITY WITH YOUR MATE IS A VERY VERY DANGEROUS GAME! PEOPLE SOMETIMES UNDERESTIMATE HOW POWER SEX AND SEXUAL COMPATIBILITY IS.....THAT WILL DEFINITELY LEAD TO A BREAK UP....WHEN THE PERSON FIND SOMEONE MORE COMPATIBLE.
Great episode.
Hey has youtube been weird for you guys?
Interesting - I'm just in this stage of developing connection with my new metamour - it's been challenging to start with but getting better. Need to think more about the contextualising
Love her 😩
Very cool discussion.
Interesting conversation.
I like to use that meditation book called 30 Days to Stop Obsessing by Harper Daniels to calm my thoughts.
🌞 Blessings ❤️🔥
This looks like a nice podcast.
Nice clip.
Love the discussion.
So true.
An important topic to be sure.
I've been loved bombed once where a long and beautiful relationship developed. Otherwise they were always a flake
Important topic thanks.
Interesting question to discuss.
I’m hypersexual I’m the opposite of aroace and asexual
Im AroAce and its kinda crazy how rare i am. Good or bad...?
It’s actually quite good. It means you don’t experience lust and can concentrate on your life instead of chasing girls/boys/any gender
We are rare, we won the human life lottery